14-year-old girl scared to cry for one week without going to class (1)
When guarding against the "telescope" of peepers, should we also tighten our "curtains" so as to avoid "the leak of spring light" and attract "opposite eyes".
Young couple next door "passion" scares 14-year-old girl
In the past few days, the Shenyang Evening News 'report on community peepers has attracted readers' attention. Peepers have made the city feel insecure, and the status quo of privacy cannot be protected has worried residents.
On August 15, reader Wang reported to the Shenyang Evening News news hotline 96009 that one week ago, her daughter on the second day of the middle school accidentally saw a naked couple next door intimidated and became so scared that she had not even gone to class for a week. Shenyang Evening News and Shenyang.com reporters interviewed psychologists and sex education experts on this particular story.
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14-year-old Lili was in her second year in a private middle school in Tiexi District. She was introverted and talked elegantly. Her father worked in a foreign country and lived with a mother who did business. Lili is very self-reliant, and her mother, Ms. Wang, rarely bothers to educate her children. However, a sudden incident a week ago made Ms. Wang wonder how to respond.
A week ago, Ms. Wang received a call from the babysitter: "Lili is crying on the bed, come back soon." When she returned home, Ms. Wang found that her daughter was asleep and there were tears on her face. The nanny recalled: "I was working in the living room, and suddenly I heard Lili scream, and then I started crying. I ran into the room immediately. The young couple next door were naked ... I felt embarrassed. Close the curtains. "
Aftermath: Girl cries for a week without going to school
After waiting for her daughter to wake up, Ms. Wang began to talk tentatively with her daughter. Ms. Wang, who knows a bit about psychology, tried to enlighten her daughter: "This is a thing between adults, it's normal, there is nothing to fear ..." Before Ms. Wang finished speaking, Lili started crying again, "You go out, Don't enter my house. "
According to Ms. Wang, "Afterwards, Lili cried, and sometimes fell asleep, and her mood fluctuated. I asked Lili's class teacher to enlighten her, but it didn't work for a week. I was worried that my daughter had depression."
Ms. Wang said: "Li Li is very simple, only contacts two or three female classmates, and rarely talks to boys. This time she may be scared by seeing this scene. Usually children are also very sensitive to physical exposure. Accepting a public bath, she will dress well at home in the summer. This may be related to my early education for her. "
[Responsible editor: Wang Huanjun]
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